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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Peng Chai

Was googling for restaurants to have CNY dinner with dad, mum, sisters, hb and the monkies. Saw that peng chai is on the menu.. Curious, cos normally it's a super expensive dish, so tried to google the recipe. Found this on the web, thus tried cooking it over the weekend since it looked rather simple...

Serves 4 persons
Ingredients
8 pcs preserved chinese mushrooms(superior quality)
8 pcs dried oysters(soften in water)
1 large piece of fried bean curd sheet(cut into oblong shapes)
1 bunch of sea moss(soften in water)
2 pcs of fresh King oyster mushrooms(cut into slices)
50g Chinese cured ham(if not, use pork skin)
4 pcs of dried squid tentacles

Seasonings
300ml rich chicken stock
4 tbsp oyster sauce
1 tbsp sesame oil
Starch
1.5 tbsp potato starch
3 tbsp water

Method
1. In a large casserole, add stock to boil. When it boils, add the mushrooms to cook first.
2. Cook for 15 mins till the soup turns black. Remove the mushrooms, cut off the stems and discard the stems. Set aside.
3. Next add the rest of the ingredients and seasonings except sea moss and bean curd sheet to cook.
4. Lower heat and cover the claypot to simmer for 50 mins.
5. Remove all the ingredients in the claypot.
6. Using another claypot, start to layer the food starting from the bottom.
7. First layer is squid, then pork, then mushrooms, oysters.
8. Next put the bean curd sheet into the hot pot to cook briefly for 10 mins till soften.
9. Remove and arrange on the pot.
10. Lastly, using a pair of chopsticks, pick up soften sea moss and dip into hot soup to cook for 5 mins. And arrange it the poon choy pot.
11. Add starch mixture to the soup, stir till it thickens. Turn off the heat and pour the sauce over the poon choy.

Serve immediately with rice.

Using pork skin
If you want to use pork skin, you need to change the process of cooking.

1. Heat up claypot with a little oil and saute 2 slices of ginger till fragrant.
2. Add pork skin to fry till its slightly burnt and cooked.
3. Then follow the steps above.

Notes
I didn't add salt cos the dried foodstuff I use are already salted.

If you can, add more mushrooms to make more stock.

She's Growing Up Way Too Soon!!

My baby is growing up too FAST!!

Her at 3.5 years old..



Ranting..

What does being a parent mean to you?

To me.. It simply means taking full reponsibility of our kids. Providing they with all they need (in terms of love, education and joy / fun) and teaching them the values and their reponsibilities, and the list is endless..

Lately.. A girlfriend who is selling some health products told me that i should start taking them to "maintain" myself.

Honestly, i don't spend lots on myself (maybe except for my collection of my not too expensive bags). Perhaps 10 suits and 3-5 pairs of heels for work, 5 tees and a couple of bottoms for going out on weekends.. That's about all i can think off.

Yesterday an idiot told me everything in my life revolves my family, my kids.. I should just be a housewife.. After my family, comes my friends.. Where does work comes in?

WTF!! I got so pissed!

As a wife, i have to be there for my husband..
As a mother, i have to be there for my kids when they need me.
As a parent, i have the responsibility to provide for them..
As a child to my parents, i have to provide for them should they retire..
If life is not about my family, then why should i be working to provide them with better education, better life.

Then again.. Who is that he to tell me what i am better off in being?

If my life isn't about my kids and my spouse, i shouldn't even be married!!
If my life isn't about my parents, then i am not even worthy being their child!!
If my life is about all he said, family and friends... Then, why on earth am i stuck in office in the month of DEC clearing work when my monkies at at home waiting for me to bring them out??

It's for work! PERIOD!

ARGH..

And here i am feeling guilty because i am at work and not with my kids... And then an idiot pop out and made such a tackless comment!

Monkies and their Master Pieces

Since i isn't able to bring the monkies out on most days, so bought some art pieces for them to keep them busy.. Howeve, Nick isn't very patient, nor interested in crafts, so Grace end up doing almost everything.

Nick with his froggie photo frame.
Grace with her car photo frame.
Grace with her cat sitting on her head. She did it at the art class..
Grace and her little lamb which she did at art class too!!
Grace painted the Santa..
She also do up the foam crafts..
She did this cute paper bag puppet..
While Nick did this "crossed eyed" lion..
That perhaps summaries what kept them busy this whole school holiday.. :)

The Strawberry Shortcake Show @ Centrepoint

The 2 younger monkies been stuck at home almost all school holiday cos mummy is so so busy with work.

Finally, was able to apply leave last Friday at the 11th hour to bring Grace to catch the Strawberry Shortcake show at centrepoint!

The "important" sticker that we had to start Q-ing from 11am. Show only starts at 1pm. :P For the 2 hours in the Q, Grace never stop asking me what time is the Strawberry Shortcake coming out.
The happy monkie with her "precious" sticker..
Here she is with that 1 precious photo with Strawberry Shortcake.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

His Christmas Wish..

I told Nick to think what he wants for X'mas.. Then we can go and buy together.

Today he called me at work..

"Mummy, i know what i want for Christmas already.. I want to play snow!!"

Darns.. Where has snow and is cheap??

Shit.. I got myself into trouble again.. :(

Maybe... Maybe... I'll bring him to snow city at Science Centre.. :P

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Oh Mr Sun!! We LOVE U!!

Finally after weekends and weekends of hiding at home cos it's always raining when we want to go out, Mr Sun is finally out, although not for long!!

Nevertheless, we manage to make a trip to play.. 




In case you are wondering, why do i only capture Grace on the scooter and not her brothers.. Well.. Grace is half riding, half pushing.. So, she's slow enough for me to take pictures. *slow-pok*

As for her brothers, they zoom and were gone in a flash before i could take pictures.. :(

I Am In Need Of A Break..

I am seeing the signs.. It's telling me i am in need of a break.. 

I am losing myself and it's scary.  

I'm working for the sake of working, i am not motivated.. I am just merely doing what i have to do and what needs to be done. When it's over, i head straight home.. Plant myself infront of the TV till it's time for bed and the same cycle repeats itself again the next day. 

On weekends, i don't have any clue on what i want to do or where i want to go.. I go because i need to be there, or the kids need to be there.. Then home again to laze my weekends away.. 

My whole December this year is filled with work and i am planning to apply leave on the week of 27th. And hopefully, i can go on a proper break without much disturbance. 

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Bz, Bz plus LAZY!!!

*Yawn* This is a super duper busy month..

Work has been extremely plentiful, barely enough time for the kids even on weekends, hubby's traveling was much more compared to the last couple of months which left me to manage the kids alone on weekends.

I have loads to update, yet dunno where to begin..

Too lazy to turn on the MacBook and get stuck to the desk as the battery has decided it's time is up, his brains are also getting a lil' retarded perhaps due to age (or izzit me getting too impatient these days).

These days I end up replying SMS or what's App while in the loo and surfing the Internet while waiting for the kids to finish lessons (which is a mere 45 minutes a week!!! Darn pathetic!!!)

To all friends who have smsed or emailed or what's app-ed me if alls ok since it's not too often I go missing.. Thank you!! Me am good.. Just busy and too tired after the long day at work that's why I didn't log on to msn, or blogged or SMS.

To all my kids playmates who I've been replying "sorry, we cannot make it (for the play date)" I hope u all had fun and we look forward to the next playdate soon!!!

To all friends who have asked why am I sleeping the moment I reach home and been putting on weight and if am pregnant.. Well.. NO, am not.. Just tired and maybe the constant munching when brains are tired, so perhaps that's why growing fat...

As for the school holidays, no holidays in plan yet.. And we think we cannot make it for any trip this school holiday since hb's December is packed with traveling.

Hope I will find some time to upload this kid's photos soon.. Nites!!!

Btw, can someone teach me to upload pix from the camera to iPad?? :P

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Am NUTS!

Coach and Kate Spade should just bane my I.P. address! ARGH.. 

I've just bought 3 Kate Spades and another 5 Coach wristlets online.. 

Or i should just snap my card.. 

Argh.. 

Now i have plenty of things to hide from hubby.. 

The loots and the credit card bills.. ARGH!! It's driving me NUTS!!!!


Tuesday, October 12, 2010

10 Truths..

A friend left this in my facebook inbox.. Asking me to name '10 Truth about Yourself that No One Knows.."

Ok.. Here i go..

1. I suck my tummy in when i see my bosses ..

2. I have over 30 Coach and Kate Spade bags hidden everywhere around my home which i dare not let my hb find out, yet i always feel i don't have enough bags for all occations.

3. Apart from the 9 pairs of black heels i have at home for office wear, i have another 6 pairs in office i dare not bring home to show my husband..

4. I hate Grace's awful curls and i am so tempted to bring her for rebonding!

5. I don't want to go Korea with my husband but am so tempted to tag along with Irene to USA..

6. I am not long-winded..

7. I want to try being drunk yet i am afraid i wake up the next day, beside some stranger..

8. I like to day-dreaming.. Dream i married a rich and handsome looking man, lives in a huge house with 10 maids and i have 5 kids, and my job is to just send the kids around, go for high tea and wait for husband to come home for work..

9. My hobby is digging my nose and dig Grace's ears.

10. After being in the marriage for 12 years, I still cannot stand my husband's CS habbits.. :P

Okies.. Am done with 10! Phew..

P.S. : Despite my hb's CS habbits, i still love him very much!.. :)

Monday, September 27, 2010

F1 Fever!!

Did you caught the fever too??

It's the 3rd year in a row we caught the bug! And guess what?? Am half deaf today!! Hahahaha..

Year 1, we purchased the throat cutting F1 tix for the race day, brought Sam and Nick to catch the race (and Nick, then 3yo, can still remember!!!)

Year 2, we were given 2 GrandStand tix, so hubby and me went to watched the race!

Year 3 (i.e. this year), we were invited to a private suite were there was air-con, TV screen and cocktails provided!! Darn nice! :)

Till i load and sort out the pix.. :P

Friday, September 24, 2010

Poor Nick.. : ..(

He's got itchy hand.. 
He went to touch the iron..
He got burnt at his palm..
He cried buckets.. 

Yet, he went to school without the maid or teacher informing us. 
He kept quiet and hide his hand when we got home at 8ish..
The maid finally opened her mouth and spoke up on the accident at 8.30pm and we rushed him to the doctor.. 

It was a huge open wound that needs cleaning up and hopefully prevent an infection since it's been left unattended for almost 12 hours!

Then, the doctor informed us that there is something weird about the wound.. It had some whitish thing around and in the wound. And much questioning, Nick told us he had PUT GLUE on the palm, attempting to stick his skin back!  *ARGH* How naive can a 5yo kid be.. I am guessing it must be darn painful!..

After doctor clean up the wound, he also wrapped a thick bandage on his palm and instruct us to keep the bandage dry and go back daily for the next 2 weeks to clean and dress the wound.. 

And the damage, S$160 (for the 1st visit only!!)... *ARGH*
 * Update : Visit 2 for cleaning up costed $45.. 

** Nick, am counting so that i can claim this back from you when you grow up!.. *evil grin*

Shrink Art With Grand-Auntie Jeanne

Grand-Auntie texted me a day before we went to her home "I teaching the kids to do shrink art, so bring your colour pencils." That sms left me puzzled, so i replied with " What is shrink art?" and the reply came back as "I will BAKE THE PAPER after they colour loh."

I didn't thought much about it since i assumed she was pulling my legs, nevertheless, i brought the colour pencils to her home.. 

The first pix shows the size of the shrink art paper against the hand phone holder. Then the next few pictures shows the piece of paper shrinking and curling up and with a frying ladle, we smack the piece of paper flat! When flatten, it's like a hard plastic and u can hang a key ring and make it into a key chain.  Cool right?
Grace with her shrink art end product! :)
Thank you Grand-Auntie Jeanne for having us at your home!! :)

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Kite Flying @ Marina Barrage

By chance, we saw some pretty lights flying in the sky.. We stopped by to check only to realize that those were KITES!

So, the very next day, we decided to knock off at 4pm, just to bring the monkies to the Marina Barrage to fly kites. Since it was a weekday, we did not expect the place to be so CROWDED!!!

Look at the number of people on a weekday.. Don't they need to go school or work?? 
See the amount of kites in the sky? 
Nick's kite.. Up, up and into the sky.. 
We had a great time later that day playing with sparklers, bubbles and led lights!!

We sure will be back for more fun soon!!

Grace and Her Tutu..

Finally.. My notti princess is willing to put on the tutu, but only for a mere 5 mins..

Never Mind, that 5 mins is enough to send me flying over the moon!!!

Am Still Procastinating..

I've got plenty of photos still sitting in the memory cards of the cameras..

Hubby had proposed to get new memory cards instead of waiting for me to load them into my macbook..

Am just too lazy to even turn that macbook on.. So am resorting to surf the internet via my ipad..

Argh.. What is wrong with me??

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Am Not So Looking Forward..

You know what..

I am think am getting a little sick of traveling.. Haha..

Bimbo huh?

One minute am saying i need a holiday, am looking forward to holidays. Now am saying this.. Haiz..

Don't get me wrong.. I still love to travel, but the thoughts of leaving Nick and Grace to be taken care of by the helper makes me worry!.. Not that she ill-treats them, but, even as parents, we sometimes need a break from our own children, what more we are talking about a helper?

Kuala Lumpur this Friday, Bangkok 2 weekends later, Korea end of October..

Next, coming up, Taiwan with the entire platoon..! I think worse.. I will be dead beat after the trip..

Hmm..

The Hand-Made Tutu

Who ever says all princesses likes tutu?? Tsk tsk..

Mine, for sure, is one who hates it.. Who cares even if mummy made a trip down to spotlight and buy the stuffs then, stay up till 5am just to complete it.. *sob sob*

See her look when i forced her to put it on??

Article for Married Couples...

A friend who's marriage broke down shared this..

A very true and good article to serve as a wake up call for us to remove all distractions that do not belong to our lives.
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DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?' I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) .. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;

IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Children Learn What They Live

Here's a poem i read since i was very young, but didn't truly understood it till i took care of my own kids!..

Something we should always stop and reflect while we handle our little ones..

If a child lives with criticism,
he learns to condemn.

If a child lives with hostility,
he learns to fight.

If a child lives with fear,
he learns to be apprehensive.

If a child lives with pity,
he learns to feel sorry for himself.

If a child lives with ridicule,
he learns to be shy.

If a child lives with jealousy,
he learns what envy is.

If a child lives with shame,
he learns to feel guilty.

BUT

If a child lives with encouragement,
he learns to be confident.

If a child lives with tolerance,
he learns to be patient.

If a child lives with praise,
he learns to be appreciative.

If a child lives with acceptance,
he learns to love.

If a child lives with approval,
he learns to like himself.

If a child lives with recognition,
he learns that it is good to have a goal.

If a child lives with sharing,
he learns about generosity.

If a child lives with honesty and fairness,
he learns what truth and justice are.

If a child lives with security,
he learns to have faith in himself and in those about him.

If a child lives with friendliness,
he learns that the world is a nice place in which to live.

If you live with serenity,
your child will live with peace of mind.

With what is your child living?

by Dorothy Law Nolte

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Busy Lazy Busy!!

It's been a busy, busy and lazy month!

Oh!! It's such a ME month! And LAZY is my middle name! hahaha..

Been clearing leave for almost half the month, somehow, out of the house every other day, trying to maximize the precious few days leave i have with the kids..

Gone for a couple of movies, caught a couple of skits with the monkies, made a few impromptu holiday trips with my family, caught up with old friends, etc!!

So much pictures to upload and both my camera memory cards are FULL! Yet, i am still procastinating on doing it.. Haha..

OK, soon soon i will do that.. Hope i will do that this weekend otherwise i seriously have to consider buying memory cards for the next trip .. Till then..

Shopping, Shopping and Shopping

Been superly-duperly busy lately.. With what leh?

Online shopping loh!!!

Infact, gone so nuts over it until i think i need to chop off my fingers and cut away my cards!

Just over the weekend while we were away in Hua Hin, i spent slightly over 1k USD on online shopping! 2 Kate Spade bags, 1 wallet, 1 coach, 7 pcs of Ralph Lauren and some Pumpkin Patch for Grace!

Darn!

Now am patiently waiting for the loots to arrive *excited* and not too looking forward to the credit card bill *shake head*..

Thursday, August 12, 2010

The Big Bully is a Scary-Cat too!!

We watched the NDP live at the padang again! And, this time, she didn't use the flag and cover her head / eyes anymore..

She just simply burst out into tears and tried to cry louder than the fighter planes.. After the first one that flew by, she insist i have to carry her and help her to cover her ears while she hugged her head.

After the segment, i asked her about her fears and she says it was so loud and near her that she was afraid that the will drop on her head!

Kids.. Simply adorable!!

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Our Busy National Day Weekend..

It's National Day on Monday, as such, we had an extremely long weekend.. 

Initial plans to go Genting, Macau, Cameron Highlands and Marina Bay Sands wasn't successful.. :(

Since my long weekend started on Thursday and didn't end till Monday, the monkies definately had loads of activities lined up for them!

Friday.. Nick celebrated his birthday in school.. 
Sunday, the monkies joined in the flame celebration at ITE East!

On National Day, the monkies had a quick meal at McDonalds and rushed of to join the Q to get into Padang for the National Day Parade. 
No pictures taken at the NDP this time round cos, well, mummy forgot to charge both of the digital camera and her handphone battery also..  :(

Unspeakable Fears..

Of late, i've been wondering..

A cousin joined gangsterism.. He started to verbally abuse his parents on facebook. He went almost extreme, and added "Born to a failure, born to be irritating and annoying."

A friend asked, how are you going to protect your daughter and teach her what are rights and wrongs, can do or cannot do.. 

Sam's been making plenty of excuses for things he shouldn't have done, or for things he should do yet, not done.  How do i tell him to wake up because life isn't about looking for excuses. 

We have seen people bringing up fine, polite and brilliant kids who makes contributions to the society, yet, the nurturing process, we don't quite see or hear..  Have their mums been SAHMs for the kids while they are growing up? Is it really in the blood?  How?

I know my hubby dotes on me, and am really a princess in his eyes.. But, when it comes to the kids, he doesn't really gives me any clues on how to go about it.. 

Sometimes i wish hubby could speak to the boys like friends, but more often than not, i hear him screaming at them. I know it's not the he doesn't care, but, somehow, the method is just so wrong.. 

I fear he hits the kids cos he might use too much strength.. I fear the kids may think that hitting as a way of expressing they are angry.. I fear the kids will learn to shout at the other party like he does when they get mad. I fear they may think that by being louder than others means they have won the battle.. i fear i don't do enough for them.. i fear i teach them the wrong things.  I fear something i subconsciously do today might have a negative effect on the kids 10-20 years down the road.   i fear...

Till i have a conclusion.. 

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

This School, That School..

You perhaps cannot understand how can i ever be so impressed with a Kindergarten. 

I took what Grace learnt in school for granted.. I felt that since we are paying arms and legs for Shichida Kindergarten, the amount they have taught to her was value for money.  She's usually ahead of her peers in childcare be it her speech or her motor skills.  

Since the previous childcare Nick and Grace was in was dirt cheap, i thought that they would at least do some good job in teaching sufficient stuffs if not more. 

Well, it isn't so. 

At first i thought the childcare was facing shortage of teachers problem, so i sent Nick for enrichment classes. The other reason i thought was, Nick is a slow learner. 

Well, now am thinking otherwise.. I think the childcare has short changed the kids!! 

It's week 4 since Nick started this current kindergarten, and, 
1. Instead of like the childcare had said, 1-20.. This kindergarten is doing 1-100.  
2. Nick is spelling words, reading and writing! And not just going on and on with phonics sounds only!
3. He's reading and writing chinese words unlike in the childcare, he never knew how to read and write a single word!

Damns, what have they been doing in childcare all these while?  How much more is he supposed to know but dunno because they aren't taught to him in childcare? DARNS!

I am not Kiasu! So Not Kiasu!!  Just ranting!!

Sunday, July 18, 2010

The Craze Continues.. The RSAF Museum

The mad fighter plane craze continues!! 

Bright Saturday morning, we headed out to the RSAF Museum.  We wasn't even sure if they are open since the website was last updated in 2009! 

We made rounds around that area, until we spotted the building with "The Air Force Museum". Hubby and me let out some signs of relieve!  Boy, we dare not think if we couldn't find that place or if it's closed, how disappointed the monkies would be!

After parking, as we were walking in. hubby commented "maybe the museum is only made up of these few exhibits" as that place was absolutely deserted!!
Well, in a way, hubby was pretty right.. The exhibits were a little disappointing since the kids cannot get into any of them, or there wasn't even much explanation on the model, what can the fighter planes do or how fast they could get!!  So, we just loiter around and let the Nick took some pictures.. 

Grace for some reasons got super scared of that place.. She refused to let go of my hand and kept insisting i have to carry her. If i put her down, she end up hugging my leg like a koala, and me having to drag my foot around to MOVE her.. That also perhaps explains why she's only in 1 of the many pictures we took!

Inside the museum, Nick posted in a few pictures. The place was pretty eery since we were the only people there with the weird old machines and statues. Again, there wasn't much explanations, so whatever questions Nick had for me, answers were based on my limited knowledge or some bullshit answers!.. 
Nick on the only stimulator which he pretend that he was a pilot. Grace finally got off from hugging my leg, stood there and watched for a while.

After that, the monkies watched some video fighter plane demo which made Nick so excited that he reminded me again that he wants to pilot a fighter plane when he grows up!.  *Am keeping my fingers and toes crossed he doesn't changes his mind!*
Nick here with the "fake man" in uniform.. He claims he likes the one in green better.
Some other smaller fighter planes that was "tied" to the ceiling on the way out. 
*pictures taken by Nick*
While we were leaving, a staff approached us and asked if we are interested to see a 5 mins video screening on the air force. It wasn't was informative as i have expected it to be, nevertheless, it didn't fail Nick since he wanted to see the planes. 

Not a bad place if you have time, and is looking for a quiet place.. 

Location:
RSAF Museum
400 Airport Road
Singapore 534234

Opening Hours:
Tuesday to Sunday
8.30am to 5.00pm
(Closed on Monday & Public Holidays)

Buses:
SBS 90 and 94
(SBS 94 not available on Sunday)

Free Admission