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Monday, August 31, 2009

I Eat Back My Words on "I DON'T HAVE A SUPPORTIVE HUSBAND"

Recently, a girlfriend of mine has asked me to do BPs together with her hoping we both can have some extra income. My husband told me to not WASTE my time on such things and spend more time on housework circling the fact that the part-time helper was $100 a week, and if i am going to spend so much time on the internet and out of the home, i might as well return to work since my purpose of being at home is no longer to spend time with the kids. 
  
I was very mad at him because a few other mummy friends have commented that their husbands were very supportive on them earning side income, and somehow, mine seems to be constantly  "suan-ing" me about it.
  
3 weeks back, we went all the way down to Toh Guan (i live in the Eastern part of Singapore) to collect the bed-sheets that we ordered.. The horrible supplier made us climb the shelves ourself, dig for what we wanted and pack everything back nicely for him! And worse, we had to do it during office hour (my husband had to apply for leave just to accompany me down as he was worried if i end up being kidnapped, raped or disturbed by the male workers as that place was an industrial area.) and we had 2 little helpers in tow that provided no help but made more mess after we packed the place up!  That wasn't it! We had to lug all the bed-sheets from the warehouse to the car as there was no trolley provided for us, and, after bringing them back, my poor husband had to make 4 trips up and down the 5 storey stairs, to and fro the car just to lug all the stuffs home for me to sort them out (as our block is still undergoing upgrading works for the lift).
  
And that wasn't all... :(  After packing them, my poor "bangala" worker had to lug the bags of bed-sheets back into the car and drive me down to the pick up points as he didn't want his "weak" wife to lug all the bags and the 2 rascals alone.. 
To my Hubby.. I LOVE YOU.. Although your irritating mouth always scold me and tell me you don't support me in the silly things i do, your action speaks louder than words!.. THANK YOU for all the big and small things you done for me and i really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.. :)

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